Swingers Dates Membership Cost
VIP prices
Swinger dating lives or dies in conversation, and VIP is the membership that opens conversation up. With it you get fuller messaging, advanced search filters, the rooms where members chat together and any private group chat you set up.
| VIP plan | Pounds | US dollars |
|---|---|---|
| 1 week | £14.99 | $19.99 |
| 1 month | £29.96 | $42.81 |
| 3 months | £64.16 | $102.73 |
| 6 months | £102.60 | $128.31 |
| 12 months | £155.91 | $260.19 |
VIP Plus prices
VIP Plus includes everything in VIP and raises your profile's visibility, with priority given to your messages and likes.
| VIP Plus plan | Pounds | US dollars |
|---|---|---|
| 1 week | £15.99 | $22.99 |
| 1 month | £34.24 | $51.39 |
| 3 months | £77.01 | $128.44 |
| 6 months | £128.31 | $154.03 |
| 12 months | £208.05 | $338.41 |
Checkout always displays the final amount and its currency for you to confirm. A card held in another currency may attract exchange or overseas fees set by your own bank, which is worth asking your card provider about beforehand.
Choosing between VIP and VIP Plus
Think about how you use the site. If your main aim is to talk properly with people you have found through search, and perhaps spend time in the members' chat rooms, VIP covers it. If you would like your profile placed in front of more people and your messages and likes given priority, VIP Plus is the step up.
A short plan suits a couple still finding their feet, while a longer one suits people who already know the site fits. There is no wrong answer, and the checkout screen confirms the exact inclusions of each tier for you to review.
What every account can do
Everyone begins by creating a profile. That covers setting up a couple or single account, adding photos, stating who you would like to meet and running searches in your area. The paid tiers add the fuller messaging, filters and chat options described above. For a closer look at each tool, the features overview has the detail.
Pounds or dollars
Prices on Swingers Dates are shown in pounds sterling for the UK and in US dollars for many visitors elsewhere. Your confirmation repeats the figure and the currency charged. If you are travelling, or live in one country and bank in another, look at the currency on the checkout screen before confirming so the statement matches what you expected.
Discreet billing
Payments appear on your bank or card statement under a discreet, generic description rather than the name of the site. If you share a bank account, a statement with an unfamiliar description is still worth explaining to your partner in advance, which is good practice in any case for a couple exploring swinging together.
Card details go to the network's payment processor, never onto your profile, and no other member ever has a reason to ask for them. Anyone who asks you for money is not genuine; the safety guide explains what to do.
Renewals and cancellation
Plans may renew automatically at the end of the term you choose, depending on the plan. Read the renewal terms on the checkout screen before you confirm the purchase. Cancelling starts with a message to Support, sent from the help form inside your account or typed to the site's chat assistant. Support replies by email with a link that completes the cancellation. Paid access carries on until the term you bought ends, and your profile stays in place afterwards.
If you have a question about a payment, contact support from inside your account. Keep any confirmation email, as it helps the team find the transaction.
Paying as a couple
A couple profile is one account, so one membership covers both partners. Decide together whose card pays and who will look after renewals, so that neither of you is surprised by a statement or by a plan ending. If one of you prefers not to have the charge on a personal card, settle that before checkout rather than afterwards.
It also helps to agree what the membership is for. You might want seven days to test the water around one particular weekend, or months of unhurried conversation before any meeting. Choosing the length together keeps the decision shared, which is the spirit of swinging as a couple.
Questions worth asking yourselves
Work through these together. Does search show people within reasonable travelling distance who match what you are looking for? Do you expect to spend time in chat rooms, or mainly in one-to-one messages? Would extra visibility for your profile make a difference, given how specific your preferences are? Do you have a date in mind, such as a hotel stay or a weekend when the children are away?
Answering those questions honestly points you towards the right tier and length. Search is open to every account, so you can see who is near you before deciding anything at all.
What a membership does not change
Paying for VIP or VIP Plus changes what you can do on the site; it does not change the rules of swinging. Nobody you message owes you a reply, a meeting or anything beyond courtesy, whatever tier either of you holds. Boundaries still come first, first meetings still belong somewhere public, and either party can still end a conversation or an evening without giving a reason.
A paid membership is also separate from ID verification. Verification stays optional for every account, and paying does not count as proof of identity. If reassurance matters to you, ask a potential date about verification and a video call regardless of their membership level, and expect the same question in return.
Who can buy a membership
Every membership belongs to an adult: members must be 18 or over (21 in some US states). The prices above are in pounds and US dollars for visitors in the UK and elsewhere in the English-speaking world. Whatever you choose, read the how it works guide first so you know what to expect from your first conversations and meets.
Frequently asked questions
How much is VIP on Swingers Dates?
VIP is £14.99 or $19.99 for 1 week, £29.96 or $42.81 for 1 month, £64.16 or $102.73 for 3 months, £102.60 or $128.31 for 6 months and £155.91 or $260.19 for 12 months.
How much is VIP Plus?
VIP Plus is £15.99 or $22.99 for 1 week, £34.24 or $51.39 for 1 month, £77.01 or $128.44 for 3 months, £128.31 or $154.03 for 6 months and £208.05 or $338.41 for 12 months.
Does my membership renew automatically?
It depends on the plan. Read the renewal terms at checkout. To stop a renewal, contact Support through your account support form or the chatbot, then use the cancellation link they email you.
What will appear on my bank statement?
A discreet, generic description rather than the site name. If you have a query about a specific charge, contact support from your account.
How does VIP Plus differ from VIP?
VIP gives you messaging without restrictions, the advanced filters, private group chats and entry to the rooms where members talk. VIP Plus keeps every one of those and lifts your profile higher in front of others, with priority for your messages and likes.